My husband is not the kind of guy you meet everyday... That's why I'm so blessed to have him in my life and to be his wife. He is everything I'm not... but we have something in common and that is the love we share for each other. This love I can't explain... the constant need for each other. We can be mad at each other and annoy each other but still be madly in love. Weird uh?... Yeah I still can't understand it myself. To those who know him, you might like him or not...you might think he is nice, or mean. I know he can be rude and mean...but trust me...He doesn't even know or mean to be like that... hey, I've been married with him for 3 years... I Should know him, and oh yes I do. Believe me, I didn't like him my self the first time I met him. He was making fun of this girl...I didn't like that. But once I knew him I just fell in love...
And I don't want you to fall for him too because he is mine now... What I mean is that you need time to get to know him... He won't open himself that fast... that's the problem... He won't show much emotion about anything or anybody except me, our son and soccer. So he thinks that by being funny hi is going to be liked...and believe me... he doesn't care if his is liked or not...he just tries.. for some people works, for others don't....but he is my husband and I know who he really is, and because of who he is I love him. He is not perfect just the way I'm not perfect either. All I can say about him is that I love him and that he is the man that God created for me...How do I know?... I just do...Is this force that keeps us together...That is God...Who is #1 in our lives...We love God before each other. We've been through good, bad and really bad...Only God and we know....but it was during those times that love kept us together... We are still in the process of learning how to manage our home and our family...We don't always agree, but I'm fortunate to have a husband that loves me so much and cares so much about his family that would go out his way to please me. He has supported me when nobody else did and when I've messed up I look back and he was standing next to me. Unfortunately, he can't say that about me because when he messed up I was in front of him to throw it at his face... I'm still at the process of learning to stand next to him no matter what...I'm doing much better....I have understood that we are in this together and by the end of the day we only have each other and our son. He has taught me there is much to life than keeping things neat... that is ok to make messes sometimes, that life is to short to be worried about what others think about us and that we need to forgive in order to be happy. He is not only a good husband but the best daddy... I should say he is a better mom than I am. He cares for his son in a way I never imagined him, and Jr knows it. There is no surprise that he wants daddy most of the time. He always helps me around the house and keeps my dreams alive when I'm about to give up... He doesn't have always the right words to say to me or what he feels for me but he surely lets me know in so many other ways. So here is to The love of my life, my Best Friend during good, bad and worst times... he who loves me everyday ... I read in a marriage advice book this question...
Just think for a minute how would it be married to yourself?....Jajaja...My poor husband, he got it worst than I do...and for this and so many other reasons I love him and I will always stand next to him too. I Love You So Much Edgar!
Song of Solomon 8:6-7 (New International Version)
6 Place me like a seal over your heart,
like a seal on your arm;
for love is as strong as death,
its jealousy unyielding as the grave.
It burns like blazing fire,
like a mighty flame.
7 Many waters cannot quench love;
rivers cannot wash it away.
If one were to give
all the wealth of his house for love,
it would be utterly scorned.

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